When us women get hurt we withdraw ourselves, fearful to open up to someone else and risking getting hurt again. We as women become reclusive and cautious, hurting internally. Men for the most part are the complete opposite. When they get hurt they externalize everything and take their hurt out on others. One woman hurts them and it pretty much a wrap for all future woman. Most likely they will play quite a few girls until all their pain has gone away and they are sincerely healed. And that is if they are ever ready to move forward and still believe in love. Girls have a habit of taking out their past on men as well but it comes from a place of fear and hurt and with guys it comes from hurt, anger and the need for pay back.
I am trying this new thing and trying not to generalize men and women but it’s so damn hard, because so many fit into my generalizations. But with that said these are just my opinions based on men and women I have encountered. If you feel you don’t fit either description so be it. I’m more so interested in those who do fit. When do people allow themselves to let go and open themselves up again? I’m so curious!
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